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Though I'm reluctant to even acknowledge you - I question whether you even deserve to know the truth - here it is. It's from this site called Wikipedia. I know it's fairly obscure, but if you'd, you know, googled it (instead of deciding to go the "I'm going to reveal myself to be a gullible and blind idiot on an Internet forum"-route), you may have found it.daddy1gringo wrote:The premise of this thread is that it is offensive to use the word "homosexual" rather than "gay" because what the word "homosexual" implies about the nature of homosexuality is clearly proven not true (so clearly that only ignorant people who think the world is flat believe it). Therefore it is bigotry and hate. If, however, it is not clearly proven, the whole premise falls apart. I ask again, where is the compelling scientific proof?
The thing about Wikki is that it is edited by almost anyone. Therefore, it is very rife with errors or things that are just plain opinion.InkL0sed wrote:PS. For the rest of you, note the usage of "gay" versus the usage of "homosexual" in this article. "Homosexual" is always contrasted with "heterosexual", while "gay" and "lesbian" are contrasted with "straight".
Nobody's making shit up.
You didn't actually read the Wiki article, did you? (It was completely irrelevant to anything you just said.)PLAYER57832 wrote:The thing about Wikki is that it is edited by almost anyone. Therefore, it is very rife with errors or things that are just plain opinion.InkL0sed wrote:PS. For the rest of you, note the usage of "gay" versus the usage of "homosexual" in this article. "Homosexual" is always contrasted with "heterosexual", while "gay" and "lesbian" are contrasted with "straight".
Nobody's making shit up.
This is a key example. In some circles, "gay" refers mostly to men, while "lesbian" refers mostly to women. In other places, "gay" refers to both. In either case, the correct opposite of heterosexual IS homosexual. Folks may use other terms, but that doesn't mean using homosexual is incorrect.
And, while this article attempts to claim that heterosexual is offensive, the truth is that many others consider "gay" , more rarely "lesbian" to be offensive.
There is no set standard here. Just some people's opinions. Attempting to claim that people who use any of these terms is automatically bigoted is not just wrong, it is being very bigoted itself.
Woah... why the hostility?InkL0sed wrote:Though I'm reluctant to even acknowledge you - I question whether you even deserve to know the truth
Because he's not an honest truth-seeker - and why waste the truth on those who don't want it?thegreekdog wrote:Woah... why the hostility?InkL0sed wrote:Though I'm reluctant to even acknowledge you - I question whether you even deserve to know the truth
It was relevant to what I quoted. You implied that was wikki.InkL0sed wrote:You didn't actually read the Wiki article, did you? (It was completely irrelevant to anything you just said.)PLAYER57832 wrote:The thing about Wikki is that it is edited by almost anyone. Therefore, it is very rife with errors or things that are just plain opinion.InkL0sed wrote:PS. For the rest of you, note the usage of "gay" versus the usage of "homosexual" in this article. "Homosexual" is always contrasted with "heterosexual", while "gay" and "lesbian" are contrasted with "straight".
Nobody's making shit up.
This is a key example. In some circles, "gay" refers mostly to men, while "lesbian" refers mostly to women. In other places, "gay" refers to both. In either case, the correct opposite of heterosexual IS homosexual. Folks may use other terms, but that doesn't mean using homosexual is incorrect.
And, while this article attempts to claim that heterosexual is offensive, the truth is that many others consider "gay" , more rarely "lesbian" to be offensive.
There is no set standard here. Just some people's opinions. Attempting to claim that people who use any of these terms is automatically bigoted is not just wrong, it is being very bigoted itself.
Except, you don't get to just decide that your feelings are correct and no one else's are. Even if there is one guy writing an article saying a point of view, that doesn't make it valid. I firmly disagree. I have enough experience to have a right to disagree. What I said IS true, even if it is not what you see in your area or what your brother feels or sees in his area. He is not the only homosexual in the world. No one person gets to speak for that or any other community, so for you to come off so strong handed and arrogant when people are simply disagreeing is not appropriate.InkL0sed wrote:Player, I'm sorry, but you refuse to understand anything I say. You just repeat points you made pages ago. Yes, I understood what you said. You're wrong. Now shut up already.
The article is called "biological causes of sexual orientation". Nowhere does it argue anything about the word "homosexual" (which you'd know if you'd read it). I was merely pointing out that it was an example of correct usage of the terms.PLAYER57832 wrote:It was relevant to what I quoted. You implied that was wikki.InkL0sed wrote:You didn't actually read the Wiki article, did you? (It was completely irrelevant to anything you just said.)PLAYER57832 wrote:The thing about Wikki is that it is edited by almost anyone. Therefore, it is very rife with errors or things that are just plain opinion.InkL0sed wrote:PS. For the rest of you, note the usage of "gay" versus the usage of "homosexual" in this article. "Homosexual" is always contrasted with "heterosexual", while "gay" and "lesbian" are contrasted with "straight".
Nobody's making shit up.
This is a key example. In some circles, "gay" refers mostly to men, while "lesbian" refers mostly to women. In other places, "gay" refers to both. In either case, the correct opposite of heterosexual IS homosexual. Folks may use other terms, but that doesn't mean using homosexual is incorrect.
And, while this article attempts to claim that heterosexual is offensive, the truth is that many others consider "gay" , more rarely "lesbian" to be offensive.
There is no set standard here. Just some people's opinions. Attempting to claim that people who use any of these terms is automatically bigoted is not just wrong, it is being very bigoted itself.
What you said specifically about some people being offended by the terms "gay" and "lesbian" - that part is true. However, you are still wrong in general. I'm not going to bother explaining any more, because you don't process anything anyone says. You're just going to repeat yourself, and I just want it to stop already.Except, you don't get to just decide that your feelings are correct and no one else's are. Even if there is one guy writing an article saying a point of view, that doesn't make it valid. I firmly disagree. I have enough experience to have a right to disagree. What I said IS true, even if it is not what you see in your area or what your brother feels or sees in his area. He is not the only homosexual in the world. No one person gets to speak for that or any other community, so for you to come off so strong handed and arrogant when people are simply disagreeing is not appropriate.InkL0sed wrote:Player, I'm sorry, but you refuse to understand anything I say. You just repeat points you made pages ago. Yes, I understood what you said. You're wrong. Now shut up already.
Second, if you insist on making such a big issue of something that absolutely IS debateable, then you take credibility from things that are not, such as whether homosexuality is biological.
I can vouch for this.InkL0sed wrote:The article is called "biological causes of sexual orientation". Nowhere does it argue anything about the word "homosexual" (which you'd know if you'd read it). I was merely pointing out that it was an example of correct usage of the terms.PLAYER57832 wrote:It was relevant to what I quoted. You implied that was wikki.InkL0sed wrote:You didn't actually read the Wiki article, did you? (It was completely irrelevant to anything you just said.)PLAYER57832 wrote:The thing about Wikki is that it is edited by almost anyone. Therefore, it is very rife with errors or things that are just plain opinion.InkL0sed wrote:PS. For the rest of you, note the usage of "gay" versus the usage of "homosexual" in this article. "Homosexual" is always contrasted with "heterosexual", while "gay" and "lesbian" are contrasted with "straight".
Nobody's making shit up.
This is a key example. In some circles, "gay" refers mostly to men, while "lesbian" refers mostly to women. In other places, "gay" refers to both. In either case, the correct opposite of heterosexual IS homosexual. Folks may use other terms, but that doesn't mean using homosexual is incorrect.
And, while this article attempts to claim that heterosexual is offensive, the truth is that many others consider "gay" , more rarely "lesbian" to be offensive.
There is no set standard here. Just some people's opinions. Attempting to claim that people who use any of these terms is automatically bigoted is not just wrong, it is being very bigoted itself.
What you said specifically about some people being offended by the terms "gay" and "lesbian" - that part is true. However, you are still wrong in general. I'm not going to bother explaining any more, because you don't process anything anyone says. You're just going to repeat yourself, and I just want it to stop already.Except, you don't get to just decide that your feelings are correct and no one else's are. Even if there is one guy writing an article saying a point of view, that doesn't make it valid. I firmly disagree. I have enough experience to have a right to disagree. What I said IS true, even if it is not what you see in your area or what your brother feels or sees in his area. He is not the only homosexual in the world. No one person gets to speak for that or any other community, so for you to come off so strong handed and arrogant when people are simply disagreeing is not appropriate.InkL0sed wrote:Player, I'm sorry, but you refuse to understand anything I say. You just repeat points you made pages ago. Yes, I understood what you said. You're wrong. Now shut up already.
Second, if you insist on making such a big issue of something that absolutely IS debateable, then you take credibility from things that are not, such as whether homosexuality is biological.
Okay. Call me the "consistency police." I want to make sure you're not shutting him down in the same way that a fundamentalist Christian might shut down a supporter of gay marriage. Carry on.InkL0sed wrote:Because he's not an honest truth-seeker - and why waste the truth on those who don't want it?thegreekdog wrote:Woah... why the hostility?InkL0sed wrote:Though I'm reluctant to even acknowledge you - I question whether you even deserve to know the truth
That's all you got? a WIKIPEDIA article all full of "...seems to indicate... but more recent studies with wider samples failed to replicate the findings."? Thank you, you proved my point. You and various others talk as if there is some kind of proof, and not to believe it is ignorance, but called on to back it up, you got nothing.InkL0sed wrote:Though I'm reluctant to even acknowledge you - I question whether you even deserve to know the truth - here it is. It's from this site called Wikipedia. I know it's fairly obscure, but if you'd, you know, googled it (instead of deciding to go the "I'm going to reveal myself to be a gullible and blind idiot on an Internet forum"-route), you may have found it.daddy1gringo wrote:The premise of this thread is that it is offensive to use the word "homosexual" rather than "gay" because what the word "homosexual" implies about the nature of homosexuality is clearly proven not true (so clearly that only ignorant people who think the world is flat believe it). Therefore it is bigotry and hate. If, however, it is not clearly proven, the whole premise falls apart. I ask again, where is the compelling scientific proof?
Oh this is precious. If I had said this about you, you would have gone off about those judgmental Christians. You presume to judge whether I am an honest truth seeker? I ask again, what do you call a person like that?InkL0sed wrote:Because he's not an honest truth-seeker - and why waste the truth on those who don't want it?thegreekdog wrote:Woah... why the hostility?InkL0sed wrote:Though I'm reluctant to even acknowledge you - I question whether you even deserve to know the truth
Yeah, clearly all I could ever get is one Wikipedia article that happens to mention a multitude of causes for homosexuality. You didn't explain how one chooses to have less testosterone exposed to one in utero (or all of the other things).daddy1gringo wrote:That's all you got? a WIKIPEDIA article all full of "...seems to indicate... but more recent studies with wider samples failed to replicate the findings."? Thank you, you proved my point. You and various others talk as if there is some kind of proof, and not to believe it is ignorance, but called on to back it up, you got nothing.InkL0sed wrote:Though I'm reluctant to even acknowledge you - I question whether you even deserve to know the truth - here it is. It's from this site called Wikipedia. I know it's fairly obscure, but if you'd, you know, googled it (instead of deciding to go the "I'm going to reveal myself to be a gullible and blind idiot on an Internet forum"-route), you may have found it.daddy1gringo wrote:The premise of this thread is that it is offensive to use the word "homosexual" rather than "gay" because what the word "homosexual" implies about the nature of homosexuality is clearly proven not true (so clearly that only ignorant people who think the world is flat believe it). Therefore it is bigotry and hate. If, however, it is not clearly proven, the whole premise falls apart. I ask again, where is the compelling scientific proof?
OK, sure, I'll write an essay about how this ridiculous pdf of yours - which seems to be a surrogate for an argument - is wrong. You may need to give me some time, Professor.OK, I read YOUR article, now do you have the courage and the intellectual honesty to read mine? It mentions most of those same studies and debunks them with better research. Here is the link again. http://downloads.frc.org/EF/EF10F01.pdf And please don't try the cowardly cop-out again that it's not worthy for you to read it. Everybody sees through that one. You are just too closed-minded to check out anything that might challenge your prejudices.
You accuse me of bigotry, ignorance, and closed mindedness, when those are the very qualities that you, not I, have clearly exhibited. I am not in the habit of flaming or calling people names, but what do you call a person like that?
Haha, I see what that pdf is doing. It's presenting a clever case against a group of people, but the problem is that the author wants to convince the viewer that the cherry-picked myths not only describe a category of people, but also the individuals within that category.daddy1gringo wrote:That's all you got? a WIKIPEDIA article all full of "...seems to indicate... but more recent studies with wider samples failed to replicate the findings."? Thank you, you proved my point. You and various others talk as if there is some kind of proof, and not to believe it is ignorance, but called on to back it up, you got nothing.InkL0sed wrote:Though I'm reluctant to even acknowledge you - I question whether you even deserve to know the truth - here it is. It's from this site called Wikipedia. I know it's fairly obscure, but if you'd, you know, googled it (instead of deciding to go the "I'm going to reveal myself to be a gullible and blind idiot on an Internet forum"-route), you may have found it.daddy1gringo wrote:The premise of this thread is that it is offensive to use the word "homosexual" rather than "gay" because what the word "homosexual" implies about the nature of homosexuality is clearly proven not true (so clearly that only ignorant people who think the world is flat believe it). Therefore it is bigotry and hate. If, however, it is not clearly proven, the whole premise falls apart. I ask again, where is the compelling scientific proof?
OK, I read YOUR article, now do you have the courage and the intellectual honesty to read mine? It mentions most of those same studies and debunks them with better research. Here is the link again. http://downloads.frc.org/EF/EF10F01.pdf And please don't try the cowardly cop-out again that it's not worthy for you to read it. Everybody sees through that one. You are just too closed-minded to check out anything that might challenge your prejudices.
You accuse me of bigotry, ignorance, and closed mindedness, when those are the very qualities that you, not I, have clearly exhibited. I am not in the habit of flaming or calling people names, but what do you call a person like that?
You see what they did there? They used a study that only looks at CHILD ABUSERS, who identify themselves as "homosexual or bisexual." Then, the author of that .pdf takes that category of CHILD ABUSERS and applies it to ALL HOMOSEXUALS.MYTH: Homosexuals are no more likely to molest children than heterosexuals.
FACT:
The percentage of child sexual abuse cases in
which men molest boys is many times higher
than the percentage of adult males who are
homosexual, and most men who molest boys
self-identify as homosexual or bisexual.
Oh, I admitted from the beginning:BigBallinStalin wrote:Your pdf is very clever, but it's clearly propaganda. Thanks for sharing your bigoted piece of work. If this was to be held to academic standards, the editors would profusely shit all over it and say, "Try again."
No I was not claiming that this article was an unbiased scientific study. Yes, it is trying to prove a particular point, but the research cited debunks the assertions that are relevant to this thread. Those studies that "seem to indicate" that it is genetic and immutable were for the most part ridiculously unscientific and performed on ridiculously small and/or clearly biased samples, and controverted by better research later. That's the point.Yes, the article is from a "biased" source, that is, one that has, and attempts to support a particular opinion. So was the article in the op. But it references studies and surveys from various sources, even biased pro-gay sources.
I don't have time to dig up the research right now, but its no where near as simple as you wish to claim.daddy1gringo wrote:Oh, I admitted from the beginning:BigBallinStalin wrote:Your pdf is very clever, but it's clearly propaganda. Thanks for sharing your bigoted piece of work. If this was to be held to academic standards, the editors would profusely shit all over it and say, "Try again."No I was not claiming that this article was an unbiased scientific study. Yes, it is trying to prove a particular point, but the research cited debunks the assertions that are relevant to this thread. Those studies that "seem to indicate" that it is genetic and immutable were for the most part ridiculously unscientific and performed on ridiculously small and/or clearly biased samples, and controverted by better research later. That's the point.Yes, the article is from a "biased" source, that is, one that has, and attempts to support a particular opinion. So was the article in the op. But it references studies and surveys from various sources, even biased pro-gay sources.
I'm sure you will do a better job than this guy did in supporting it. I was getting a bit hyperbolic in order to get some action. I predict, however, that it will still be far from conclusive, and far from "If you don't know this is true you're ignorant". As Harry Truman said, "If you took all the experts in the world and lined them up end-to-end, they'd still point in all directions."PLAYER57832 wrote: I don't have time to dig up the research right now, but its no where near as simple as you wish to claim.
The studies showing biological links to homosexuality, are in no way all unscientific, ridiculously small, etc.
While I don't tend to agree with the article, I believe you're starting from a poor premise.daddy1gringo wrote:The premise of this thread is that it is offensive to use the word "homosexual" rather than "gay" because what the word "homosexual" implies about the nature of homosexuality is clearly proven not true (so clearly that only ignorant people who think the world is flat believe it). Therefore it is bigotry and hate. If, however, it is not clearly proven, the whole premise falls apart. I ask again, where is the compelling scientific proof?
That's basically the extent of the "evidence". In conclusion, "no one is 'born gay'".The widespread, popular belief that science has proven a biological or genetic origin to homosexuality can be traced to the publicity which surrounded three studies published in the early 1990’s. In August of 1991, researcher Simon LeVay published a study based on post-mortem examinations of the brains of cadavers. He concluded that differences in a particular brain structure suggested “that sexual orientation has a biological substrate.”2 In December of 1991, researchers J. Michael Bailey and Richard C. Pillard published a study of identical and fraternal twins and adoptive brothers, and found that “the pattern of rates of homosexuality . . . was generally consistent with substantial genetic influence.”3 Finally, in 1993, researcher Dean Hamer claimed to have found a specific “chromosomal region” containing “a gene that contributes to homosexual orientation in males.”4
These studies suffered from serious methodological weaknesses, such as small sample sizes, non-random samples and even possible mis-classification of their subjects. Other scientists have been unable to replicate these dramatic findings. These problems led two psychiatrists to conclude,
“Critical review shows the evidence favoring a biologic theory to be lacking. . . . In fact, the current trend may be to underrate the explanatory power of extant psychosocial models.”5
Subsequently, more rigorous studies of identical twin pairs have essentially made it impossible to argue for the genetic determination of homosexuality. Since identical (“monozygotic,” in the scientific literature) twins have identical genes, if homosexuality were genetically fixed at birth, we should expect that whenever one twin is homosexual, the other twin would be homosexual (a “concordance rate” of 100%).
And then there's this: http://www.apa.org/helpcenter/sexual-orientation.aspxMYTH # 9
No one is born a homosexual.
THE ARGUMENT
Anti-gay activists keenly oppose the granting of “special” civil rights protections to homosexuals similar to those afforded black Americans and other minorities. But if people are born gay — in the same way people have no choice as to whether they are black or white — discrimination against homosexuals would be vastly more difficult to justify. Thus, anti-gay forces insist that sexual orientation is a behavior that can be changed, not an immutable characteristic.
THE FACTS
Modern science cannot state conclusively what causes sexual orientation, but a great many studies suggest that it is the result of biological and environmental forces, not a personal “choice.” One of the more recent is a 2008 Swedish study of twins (the world’s largest twin study) that appeared in The Archives of Sexual Behavior and concluded that “[h]omosexual behaviour is largely shaped by genetics and random environmental factors.” Dr. Qazi Rahman, study co-author and a leading scientist on human sexual orientation, said: “This study puts cold water on any concerns that we are looking for a single ‘gay gene’ or a single environmental variable which could be used to ‘select out’ homosexuality — the factors which influence sexual orientation are complex. And we are not simply talking about homosexuality here — heterosexual behaviour is also influenced by a mixture of genetic and environmental factors.”
The American Psychological Association (APA) acknowledges that despite much research into the possible genetic, hormonal, social and cultural influences on sexual orientation, no evidence has emerged that would allow scientists to pinpoint the precise causes of sexual orientation. Still, the APA concludes that “most people experience little or no sense of choice about their sexual orientation.”
In October 2010, Kansas State University family studies professor Walter Schumm said he was about to release a study showing that gay parents produced far more gay children than heterosexual parents. He told a reporter that he was “trying to prove [homosexuality is] not 100% genetic.” But critics suggested that his data did not prove that, and, in any event, virtually no scientists have suggested that homosexuality is caused only by genes.
Basically, your claim is there is no "proof" that homosexuality is not a choice. While it's true that we don't "know" its cause (I'll get back to this assertion), that doesn't mean that it's correct to say we don't know if it's a choice. People don't choose their genes, they don't choose how much testosterone they're exposed to in utero, they don't choose how many older brothers they have. We know of many factors that influence sexual orientation, and none of these are chosen. Therefore, it follows that sexual orientation is not a choice. When we say we don't "know" the cause, we mean we don't know all there is to know about it. That is, scientists aren't able to predict any given baby's sexual orientation.Is sexual orientation a choice?
No, human beings cannot choose to be either gay or straight. For most people, sexual orientation emerges in early adolescence without any prior sexual experience. Although we can choose whether to act on our feelings, psychologists do not consider sexual orientation to be a conscious choice that can be voluntarily changed.
I've actually never seen daddy1gringo try to avoid truth. While I happen to disagree with him completely on this particular issue, I'm not convinced that he's trying to avoid it here either.InkL0sed wrote:Because he's not an honest truth-seeker - and why waste the truth on those who don't want it?thegreekdog wrote:Woah... why the hostility?InkL0sed wrote:Though I'm reluctant to even acknowledge you - I question whether you even deserve to know the truth
Well, now you have. Getting one's information from one propaganda source (and rejecting all information from, you know, scientists), is what I call dishonest. Its motivations aren't truth; the motivation is validating one's opinion. As my friend's status on Facebook says, "You don't use sources to show you're right, you use sources to become right."Woodruff wrote:I've actually never seen daddy1gringo try to avoid truth. While I happen to disagree with him completely on this particular issue, I'm not convinced that he's trying to avoid it here either.InkL0sed wrote:Because he's not an honest truth-seeker - and why waste the truth on those who don't want it?thegreekdog wrote:Woah... why the hostility?InkL0sed wrote:Though I'm reluctant to even acknowledge you - I question whether you even deserve to know the truth
From what I recall, the article harkens back to the days of 1960s psychology, within which there was a group who deemed "homosexuality" to be a disease. So, when you use the term "homosexual," according to the article, you're implying that there's something psychologically wrong with being homosexual.daddy1gringo wrote:I'm sure you will do a better job than this guy did in supporting it. I was getting a bit hyperbolic in order to get some action. I predict, however, that it will still be far from conclusive, and far from "If you don't know this is true you're ignorant". As Harry Truman said, "If you took all the experts in the world and lined them up end-to-end, they'd still point in all directions."PLAYER57832 wrote: I don't have time to dig up the research right now, but its no where near as simple as you wish to claim.
The studies showing biological links to homosexuality, are in no way all unscientific, ridiculously small, etc.
Just to clarify, you are trying to say that there is no such thing as biological homosexuality, that it is basically a mental illness?daddy1gringo wrote:I'm sure you will do a better job than this guy did in supporting it. I was getting a bit hyperbolic in order to get some action. I predict, however, that it will still be far from conclusive, and far from "If you don't know this is true you're ignorant". As Harry Truman said, "If you took all the experts in the world and lined them up end-to-end, they'd still point in all directions."PLAYER57832 wrote: I don't have time to dig up the research right now, but its no where near as simple as you wish to claim.
The studies showing biological links to homosexuality, are in no way all unscientific, ridiculously small, etc.