macbone wrote:Frankly, what's the difference? Our society has completely transformed social relationships, and some people, especially here in Hong Kong, spend far more time interacting with people online than they do face-to-face. If someone can coordinate turns in a house, why not on Skype, What'sApp, or any number of other communications software?
What's the difference in helping my frat brother win and my clanmate win?
Again, this change will drive away many casual players who are just looking for a place to play Risk online, perhaps with one or two of their friends/co-workers/family members.
Punish those who break the established rules. Don't punish those who have not broken any rules.
I suspect there still are, just about, some real differences between a friend and an online friend. So let's consider a few...
1. My friend here in Qing Dao asks to borrow 100 pounds. My answer? "No problem". On the other hand my clanmate asks to borrow 100 pounds. Hmm...
(though maybe for macbone things are different)
2. If my friend needed a place to stay my home would of course be open to him. However, if a clanmate contacted me needing a bed for a few days?
(though maybe for macbone the invisible people often don't stay that way)
3. Strangely enough if my friend needed me to look after their cat I would, but for a clanmate? In fact, has a clanmate ever made such a request in the history of CC?
(though I suppose it is possible our rather confused macbone does indeed operate a kennel service for his clan)
4. As sometimes actually happens my friend asks if I can put a good word in for him about a job, and of course I would do this. On the other hand, am I likely to write a letter of recommendation for a clanmate?
'Dear Sir,
BigBallinStalin has proved in our online engagements to be both....'
(though I suppose it is possible macbone here would indeed do such a thing and does so on a regular basis)
5. Now let's consider if my friend gets sick, his wife is away, and he needs me to nurse him in some unlikely fashion (for example by making soup, or ordering take out). Now I would do this, I would mop my friend's brow. However, I have yet to hear of clanmates looking after clanmates when they are sick. Certainly in the BpB this wasn't a common policy and I haven't noticed such a culture shift here in MM either.
(though I guess macbone quite often nurses his clanmates back to full fighting strength in the event of a flu outbreak...and can but be applauded for it)
6. Have I ever been for a meal with a clanmate, got drunk with one, had a fight with one, slept with the same woman, spilled my most innermost secrets, got so high I jabbered for 8 hours about madness with one? I can't say that I have.