The annonimous games wold be interesting..... that would meke games really fun
I'd say that most of the higher ranked playeres, brigadiers and above (some colonels too), got that rank cause they only play a few maps which has a very unique strategy to win, with setting that makes harder for people who are not related to those maps. boring way of playing, they almost never join multis and are afraid to play people with low rank
I'm a player who want to enjoy the game, i play almost every map, and almost every setting (of course i've got my favorites ones), and most of the time i don't care the ranking of the other players (probably that's the reason why i haven't got to brigadier yet, lol..also for playing tons of 1 on 1), i really enjoy the multi games, and most of the times i agree on people uniting to take the stronguer or it would be to late, though i don't agree on completly killing the leader, just bring back the balance..., sometimes it happens against me, in this cases you need to make truce early in the game, or play fog wich really helps (I love to stack behind stacks

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As for the points, most people specially high rank players, when no options of winning they suicide to loss the less points posible, Personally i don't like that, i believe most in not letting win someone who doesn't deserve it. But all this depends on the players you are facing