daddy1gringo wrote: Incandenza wrote:Just out of idle curiosity, are you basing this on years of study of genetics and human development in the pursuit of a doctorate,...
...In order to be able to have an informed opinion on the roots of homosexuality, you'd need to actually have some familiarity with genetics, psychology, human development, and a host of other disciplines that I suspect you haven't explored the intricacies of.
Out of equally idle curiosity, is your opinion about it based on all of those things?
There is no scientific evidence that homosexuality is normal or is an inherent part of who a person is. What one is sexually aroused by is largely conditioned. I don't have "scientific proof" either, but I do have strong anecdotal evidence.
Actually, there IS evidence. Not 100% proof, but much more than mere "anecdotal" evidence. For example if one twin is homosexual it is extremely likely the other will be, too. Also, "biological" includes much, much more than just genetics. I won't go into that though, because, and this is important,
None of that matters.
It doesn't matter for Christianity if homosexuality is genetically or otherwise biologically based and it doesn't matter for this debate if it is or is not. For Christianity, all that matters is what the Bible says. For society, though, what matters is whether it is
harmful. For something to be "wrong" psycologically, it has to be directly harmful to the person -- not just "wrong" in the sense of violating your or my religious code, but harmful in the sense of leading that person to direct physical harm. OR, it has to cause harm to others.
Those are the standards by which whether something is OK or not OK is judged.
It is not OK to say "this behavior is immoral per my religion and therefore I have the right to counsel people against it
outside of my religious practice (I mean "religious practice" very broadly to include any counselor in a religious setting. This may include a psychiatrist/psychologist as long as they identify themselves as "Christian".. or Hindu or whatever). If it were OK for you to do that for homosexuality, then it would be OK for a Moslem to counsel that your daughter must wear a Burkha, or that you should not eat pork, etc. That kind of counseling IS acceptable within religion, but just not in a purely secular environment.
daddy1gringo wrote:
1. The phenomenon of pornography addiction or "pornographic creep". A guy makes a habit of masturbating while looking at pornography. Later when he gets married, or in a relationship "with benefits", he can't perform without thinking of, or sometimes actually looking at the kind of stuff he used to masturbate to. He is conditioned to respond sexually to whatever was his sensory input at the time of the pleasure rush. The condition can be overcome, but only by re-conditioning to respond to his wife/partner.
2. Stud bulls whose semen is "harvested" sold and distributed, after a while, when they are approaching the facility, they start getting, um, visibly aroused. (Does the name Pavlov ring any bells?

Sorry)
Again, whether this is true or not just does not matter. People are free to be who they want to be in our society and to do what they wish as long as it doesn't harm others. Homosexuality used to be thought like a "disease" that is "catching", but this is just not so. And.. THAT is why it was removed from the list of psycological illnesses and why it is no longer to be treated as if it were, unless one is operating from a religious stance only.
daddy1gringo wrote:
3. I personally know several people, and know OF thousands more, who used to be homosexual and are not anymore. For some it just happens when they invite Jesus to live inside them, others have to work through re-conditioning, just as happens with other desires based on what the body has become accustomed to, like smoking, alcoholism, or other drug addictions.
I am going to address this because it is an idea you hear conservatives bring up a lot. The truth? When these are followed, the real truth is that very, very few of these converts stay that way. In many cases, it was not someone who was truly homosexual, but was someone who perhaps considered homosexuality as an option (and rejected it), etc. Many other times the person seems to "reform", but is not really... even if it is not for decades that they admit it. Many others may "reform" in behavior, but live with turmoil inside that leads to increases in depression, suicide, etc.
daddy1gringo wrote:
The debate gets shoved into this box where the only alternatives are either that homosexuality is an inherent part of who a person is, so objecting to it is bigotry, or that it is a choice, which, as has been pointed out, is unlikely since who would choose something that will get them mocked. It is neither.
That is the box that too many conservative Christians like to paint. The truth is far, far more complex. In this case, whether it is genetic or not is utterly irrelevant. One is not "born" Moslem. I certainly would take issue with a child of mine converting to Islam, likely would take them to a
Christian counselor. However, I would not expect an average psychiatrist or psychologist to "treat" him like I would if I thought he had a true psychosis
daddy1gringo wrote:
For one reason or another, a person tries homosexual sex, and so becomes conditioned to be aroused by people of the same sex. So a choice is involved, but they didn't choose to "be gay". The conventional wisdom is that the person "was gay" all along, and just discovered it.
An inordinate number of homosexuals have a good reason for their perception of male female relationships to turn them off, typically sexual abuse, causing them to try same-sex relations.
Another scenario is this: a boy is shy and non aggressive, or is sensitive and prefers poetry to sports, so he gets mocked and bullied by the macho kids. Unfortunately, often the only place where sensitive, artistic boys find acceptance is among homosexuals. He develops his relationships there and one thing leads to another. This scenario accounts for the disproportionate number of homosexuals among creative, artistic people much better than the "genetically determined" idea does.
All of this does not contradict the idea that we are designed (whether by God, or by evolution or both) to have our relations with the opposite sex, and participating in homosexual relations is unhealthy. This is kind of a silly analogy, but makes the point. A pair of pliers is designed for use as pliers, not as a hammer. That does not prevent a person from being in the habit of using their pliers as a hammer, probably resulting in both damage to the pliers and not doing the job right.
I think I'll stop here. I'll probably get counter arguments that will call for any further explanation or arguments I was thinking of adding.
Again, all of that is utterly irrelevant except that if it is "just a choice", then it is... and in a free country we don't send people for making choices we don't like. That is only appropriate when the choice is truly and directly harmful in a non-spiritual way. That is, in a way that would be considered "harm" regardless of someone's religion.