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Re: The "friend zone"

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Juan, i recently escaped the clutches of the friend zone myself, let me tell you how i did it.
I've known this girl for almost 4 months, and for some reason i thought she was gay the entire time. i don't remember what caused that idea, but there it was and she never gave me any evidence to believe otherwise. three days ago i was talking with a mutual friend who said in no uncertain terms that she was definitely straight. last night we shared our first kiss.

so the secret to leaving the friend zone is to treat her like she's a lesbian for a few months, then make your move. who knew?
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bbqpenguin wrote:Juan, i recently escaped the clutches of the friend zone myself, let me tell you how i did it.
I'm known this girl for almost 4 months, and for some reason i thought she was gay the entire time. i don't remember what caused that idea, but there it was and she never gave me any evidence to believe otherwise. three days ago i was talking with a mutual friend who said in no uncertain terms that she was definitely straight. last night we shared our first kiss.

so the secret to leaving the friend zone is to treat her like she's a lesbian for a few months, then make a move. who knew?
If only you'd have told me sooner.
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I just just got off the phone with her. I am fail. :(

Why do girls have to be so stupid? GOOOOOOOOOOODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Holding my head up though... there's always the next day...
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Juan_Bottom wrote:GOOOOOOOOOOODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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He probably told her how he fealt as opposed to showing her. That's poison when it comes to women because it doesn't make them feel anything in return.
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Snorri1234 wrote:
Juan_Bottom wrote:GOOOOOOOOOOODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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It's something you yell when you're frustrated.
GabonX wrote:He probably told her how he fealt as opposed to showing her. That's poison when it comes to women because it doesn't make them feel anything in return.
No, I didn't. See, I think about her all of the time, obviously, but then I got her on the phone and I couldn't remember a goddamn thing. I couldn't even repond to her awesomeness. I sucked at being the highlight of her day. Then I got pissed and called her back, and stuttered the whole F-ing time. She very clearly found me very annoying. :x :x :x
(when I was little I had a stutter, and still do appearantly.)


See the problem is that the last time I talked to her was this weekend. It was going amazingly. She even admitted ON HER OWN that she still had feelings for me. She said she wanted to hang out over Christmas break... Her friend said that I was doing great, that she just didn't want to admit that she missed me, and to keep it up.
So today I made the mistake of thinking that she was in the same mindset as before. I was wrong. After about 5 minutes of talking as if it were a continueation of our last conversation; She was fairly distant and I panicked and froze up. And now I've got to start all over. She even said that she thought about it and she doesn't want to hang out over break. The friend zone sucks!!!! She's giving me a bad year.
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Move on. What was that song lyric "if you can't be with the one you love, love the one your with." Good long term advice.
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Agreed.

Now is the time to take a deep breath, swallow and move on. Don't look back and DON'T call her.

Maybe she will come around and contact you...maybe not. Often they do come around later, but by then you will have found someone new and look back, wondering why you were so upset in the first place.
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And it only took 3 months! :P
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Oh, and the secret to success? Ignoring her and going out with another girl! One who had giant boobies...
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Juan_Bottom wrote:Oh, and the secret to success? Ignoring her and going out with another girl! One who had giant boobies...
When your dog dies...you get a new, larger, better dog. :lol:
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Juan_Bottom wrote:Image

And it only took 3 months! :P
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Impressive. Nice work.
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Juan_Bottom wrote:Oh, and the secret to success? Ignoring her and going out with another girl!
I refuse to believe this idea works, since it comes from nearly every tween show out there.
Disney in particular are fond of it.
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