I understand now. Since you can't tell which specific members have you on their foes lists right now, unless you attempt to enter games with them, you feel it's unfair, as those members who have you on their foes lists could theoretically enter your games if you don't also foes list them first. This is not an issue for me personally (nor is it for the vast majority of CC members), but I think I at least understand your problem now.
Why not just place those members on your own foes list as soon as you find out?
Or, why not lobby for a notifier as to which members have you on their foes lists?
Is this a big problem for you? I mean, how often do you find out that you can't enter a game because yet more members have you on their lists? If it is such a common occurrence, then the problem is most likely your own attitude. If not, then why do you even care?
What are the numbers we're talking, here? There are a whole lot of members on the site whose games you should be able to enter, unless like 80% or more of them have you foes listed. Is the percentage really that high?
Now that I fully understand your problem, it's quite obvious that it can only possibly matter to a tiny, miniscule percentage of CC members, as most members here couldn't care less about the members who they don't yet know have them foes listed, and as soon as they find out, they either still don't care, or just foes list them back and move on in a split second, like shooing a gnat off their shoulder. The vast majority of CC members aren't overly attached to this particular problem you have, as they are too busy playing the game and having fun.
In my opinion, any individual who doesn't simply let it go and move on when he finds that another member has foe listed him makes himself seem like a bit of an internet stalker.
