i understand that sometimes misssing turns or even deadbeating has to happen, even for good players
BUT that doesn't mean they still shouldn't incur some penatly too. i'm not talking about a public execution or losing a 1000 points here
teammates who get stuck with deadbeats or people missing turns should receive both an incentive to show up and a penalty distributed to their teammates when they don't; i don't care how great a player or how nice you are, when you deadbeat your teammates, your hurt them.
the point penalties are small and an incentive to show up for many now who don't bother to find a babysitter or possibly try to show up because there is really no penalty at all; heck sometimes delayed armies work nicely. for the normal CC'r with occasional life issues, the point penalties balance out really, lose a few and then gain a few from others with same situation. those who strive to make every turn get a nice little bonus, a deserving one.
point penalties do work for serial deadbeaters, as even though they may not care, it drops their rank fast so players can more quickly see they have issue and avoid them. it also gives those points to teammates or other game players to offset a bit of the pain/harm caused which keeps all of our blood pressures a bit lower
and for stalemates, the person who chooses to loose also faces a small extra penalty on top of losing. it is not drastic. in a sense it is a lack of endurance penalty. if the players agree on a winner, then said extra small penalty is no big deal; again the average CC'r will lose a few, and gain a few, so it equals out.
again, there will always be a few exceptions to any rule, but this rule does good things for the multitude of players on the site; i understand that the upper-echelon of players and site runners have vast networks of private games with reliable players, so this may not be an issue.
why not provide a small incentive to make turns?? the only reason to not want this rule enforced is because you like missing turns and/or deadbeating scott free which is not acceptable to the large majority of players.