sinctheassasin wrote:I would like this so my sweet talking to someone i am losing too will actually mean something!!!!!

I suppose it really depends how sweet you come accross hun. If you're sweet enough, we might skip the option altogether
As for the idea itself, I like it as much as introducing a draw possibility between 2 coaches in playoff hockey. Needless to say (which I will anyway) it is against the very concept of having a game that you intend to win anyway. In playoff hockey you don't ever see a game ending because "both teams are tired" and the overtime drags "on and on".
They play period after period, through sweat and determination... they become tired and bogged down, hungry, thirsty, disheartened with every play that doesn't work, a gut-wrenching tenseness in their gut when the opposing team has a chance. They play on and on until 1 team's mistake is matched with another team's capitalizing moment.
So it should be with this game. If you don't want to stick around and finish it, then you will have to leave, your leaving may tip the balance in favor of another player. You may not want to risk an attack, or if the game drags on, you may feel that someone "should" risk an attack. If you get tired of playing, then just attack someone, it's part of the game.
Initiating draws, I feel could be abused, and I feel it solves nothing in the case of a game where your goal is total domination. Conquerclub is just that, total domination, what about terminator games? Assassin? Is this only for standard? When you play the game, make your attacks, risk some attacks... go big or go home after a certain point. Whether you lose in round 2 or round 202 there is bound to be a winner and several losers. So it should be.
The whole concept of this site that makes it appealing is that the moment you join a game, your points are commited, your table stakes are put in... unless you win, you will lose. It's not so much of a risk if you can hope to draw.
(And I'm just happy because tonight my Red Wings are taking on the pens again... I will be 6000$ better off if the wings win the cup again... go wings! God bless inner group bets on the stanley cup.)
Jasmine