john9blue wrote:how about we change the entire mindset of "oh no look at that poor crying woman, she's definitely been abused and is definitely not faking her emotions"
AS long as we don't go back to " oh gee, she must have been asking for it... after all how could this have happened without anyone else knowing"... etc.
Seriously, did you all miss the fact that this was her FATHER? There was something else going on there for her to make such a statement against her father. And... prosecuters might well have been more willing to look at her statements knowing all the "emotional baggage" involved in such situations.
The way child abuses/family abuse of all kinds are handled does need to be examined, but to relate it to other types of rape is looking in the wrong direction.
This is definitely not the same as claiming a stranger or even "friend" committed rape.
That said, the facts are that far more rape goes unreported, unconvicted than are convicted.. even today.