Hi there - if you would please look me up, you will see that i have fairly (in most cases) given a negative to people who do not play as a team member, deadbeat etc etc.
Now, you will see that i ahve negged about 30 people or so. and one third of those (nearly) have negged me back. These have so far as i am aware ALL retalitory. When i had 3 or 4 it was funny, but now people are beginning to query it and i think thats unfair. Surely those people that moderate the forums can look at exceptional cases such as this, take a view, delete the retalitory feedbacks and warn those that make them that it is improper to do so
Some of the feedback looks unwarranted and you can petition wicked to remove those.
But you really need to ask yourself a question: Do you post in game chat primarily to vent or to influence people?
If it's just to vent, it's probably expecting a lot for them not to vent back at you. If it's to influence people, I would suggest you might be going about it the wrong way.
In general, some people seem to believe that if two people give each other negative feedback, then by definition one of them is retaliatory. That doesn't have to be true.
That said, some of your negative feedback does seem to be retaliatory.
It's a part of human nature to attack back when you are attacked. When someone does something wrong you can use your knowledge of human nature to temper how you respond. In some cases toning down the anger will get you more of what you want. It comes down to whether your communication is directed toward making you feel better (venting) or altering the existing situation to your benefit.
only one has been removed that i placed that i disagree with and have mailed wicked about thata one to explain.
I admit i was getting hacked off with getting retalitory feedbacks from people and had started to act aggressively towards those that placed them.
Anyhow, now i have found the forums ))))
i welcome all and sundry to a game, i prefer singles games and as i seem to have got addicted to this game feel at a loss if i have not got 60 games on the go at any one time!! - LOL - which is why i probably lose so many as i rush!!
Perhaps you have been a bit too trigger-happy with negs yourself - 30! With that amount being given out, I'm not surprised about the number you receive. You must have made quite a few enemies out there.
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I agree with the last post. You're leaving too many. I don't want neg fb, so you'll be going on my iggy list as soon as im done typing this.
may i balance this out for you. i have also posted about 3 or 4 FULL pages of POSITIVE feedback on palyers as well!!!
all i have done throughout is tell the truth about some players!!
i wouldnt neg a person upfront for any stupid reason at all. please take the time to read what i have psoted for people - and then unblock me and lets have a game ))))
I have played against A LOT of morons and bad people that play this game..negging doesnt improve the situation. I would suggest offer some friendly advice, ask them if they want to play doubles, add to your ignore list, or simply move on...leaving 30 or so negs...seems to be a waste of energy
ok - well i viewed it as an obligation to the rest of the community to neg deadbeats - bad partners (ie those that dont play as a team ) etc etc
however it seems the community is more lient than i have been - therefore i will reappraise the negs i have posted - and be more cauios when poisting them in the future!!
Perhaps the pot shouldn't be calling the kettle black, eh?
