I hear that the market will correct for that naturally.mordigan wrote: it's basically the same as the fat old man who forces a prostitute to lick his ass hole in return for a wad of cash. it's degrading and it's sick.
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I hear that the market will correct for that naturally.mordigan wrote: it's basically the same as the fat old man who forces a prostitute to lick his ass hole in return for a wad of cash. it's degrading and it's sick.

i don't think it's greed that causes a $300 per capita country to try and hang on to its foreign aid. in general, sub-saharans who live in poverty don't live in poverty due to their greed and poor life decisionsWILLIAMS5232 wrote:greed causes folks to degrade themselves naturally. no need to force anything.
who said they were greedy? i thought we were talking about hookers and johns?mordigan wrote:i don't think it's greed that causes a $300 per capita country to try and hang on to its foreign aid. in general, sub-saharans who live in poverty don't live in poverty due to their greed and poor life decisionsWILLIAMS5232 wrote:greed causes folks to degrade themselves naturally. no need to force anything.

You say this like it's not generally an improvement.WILLIAMS5232 wrote:a hundred or so years ago folks were able to for the most part take care of themselves or die. fortunately now we have the govt to take care of us for us.
it's unlikely anyone wants to become a hooker when they grow up. but some women are a bit trashier than others. we're all different. i don't sterilize my buggy at the grocery store before using it. others do. i'm a bit more tolerant to germs than those people. i'm going free choice here on this one. generally speaking of course.mordigan wrote:i doubt your assertion that an american hooker is making a free choice anyway. do you really think a woman would go off with potentially dangerous men and suck their cocks for $20 if she thought there was another way to get by?
fair enough. i realize your point, just when i think hooker i think "hooker who drives bmw" and "hooker addicted to crack" not "hooker who raises family via hooking because it's the only way" maybe that's because i'm an american i guess.mordigan wrote:besides, my point was that aid-giving governments behave in the same way as a man waving money at a hungry woman. they know they can make the recipient of their money dance before she gets her meal and they take advantage of that. still true.
i did say that sarcastically. if you think life today is an improvement from life 30 years ago then i'm going to say we think differently. try to think of just how many rules and regulations have been implemented in that short time, and then lets think what the next 30 years have in store for us. if that makes you happy then there's not much we'll agree on. if a person relies on the govt to get the most out of life, i don't trust that person's idea of what getting the most out of life is.Woodruff wrote:You say this like it's not generally an improvement.WILLIAMS5232 wrote:a hundred or so years ago folks were able to for the most part take care of themselves or die. fortunately now we have the govt to take care of us for us.

You name it. Sometimes its just that the person with the loudest voice doesn't necessarily have the best idea, best understanding.john9blue wrote:abuse like... corruption abuse? elaborate/link?PLAYER57832 wrote:The point is just that aid for people overseas who truly do need it is an effective means of diplomacy. Sadly, too often it gets abused, (particularly a lot of US government aid).. but those are other topics.
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Not THEIR greed, but the greed of those in charge.. often, yes.mordigan wrote:i don't think it's greed that causes a $300 per capita country to try and hang on to its foreign aid. in general, sub-saharans who live in poverty don't live in poverty due to their greed and poor life decisionsWILLIAMS5232 wrote:greed causes folks to degrade themselves naturally. no need to force anything.
I'm not gonna read the last 5 or 6 pages of this thread.Gillipig wrote:They will never return my favors anyway, so why spend money on them when they won't give me anything in return? Isn't that just a bad investment? I get the point with helping your neighbors and so on but these people will never give me anything. And if I'm in it to feel better about myself, why not give money to someone poor nearby, who can praise my name, hug me and thank me for my incredible kindness? Giving money to Africans is just pointless, most of the money you give won't arrive to the people you intended anyway.
El Capitan X wrote:The people in flame wars just seem to get dimmer and dimmer. Seriously though, I love your style, always a good read.
You know, this is actually just plain false.TheProwler wrote:
You made a good point: Most people only make sacrifices when they will see a direct benefit from said sacrifice.
Some people get enough out of "feeling good" for sending money to people far away. I think very few people actually do something entirely for the benefit of other people,and not for some benefit to themselves.
We are, basically, a species of selfish assholes.
So what was false? People give money to Africans so they can feel good about themselves....you just said they "get more joy"...that is the direct benefit.PLAYER57832 wrote:You know, this is actually just plain false.
In fact, most people get more joy from giving to others than themselves. Every study done on it shows that to be the case, even if people think otherwise.
El Capitan X wrote:The people in flame wars just seem to get dimmer and dimmer. Seriously though, I love your style, always a good read.
Do you know anybody who has actually done that?Lootifer wrote:Er a lot of people would give up their lives for their children
El Capitan X wrote:The people in flame wars just seem to get dimmer and dimmer. Seriously though, I love your style, always a good read.
El Capitan X wrote:The people in flame wars just seem to get dimmer and dimmer. Seriously though, I love your style, always a good read.
El Capitan X wrote:The people in flame wars just seem to get dimmer and dimmer. Seriously though, I love your style, always a good read.
It's not like selfless acts are entirely selfless. Suppose you donate your kidney to a genuine friend. If you didn't, you'd feel ashamed. To lift yourself of those costs, you'd donate. It's a cost-saving choice which seems entirely "selfless," but it isn't since you would realize the profit of donating your kidney--compared to the opportunity cost of being a dick.Lootifer wrote:lol, well its an unanswerable question so I prefer to think theres good in the world.
regardless I think [apparently] selfless acts should be encouraged. i.e. donate to charity (just, as BBS says, do your research and ensure it is good/effective charity: good - teach a man to fish, bad - give a man a fish).
And when people work for their own self interests it translates into good for the community, others. Life saving drugs are a good thing, the development of which was motivated by profit seeking.BigBallinStalin wrote:It's not like selfless acts are entirely selfless. Suppose you donate your kidney to a genuine friend. If you didn't, you'd feel ashamed. To lift yourself of those costs, you'd donate. It's a cost-saving choice which seems entirely "selfless," but it isn't since you would realize the profit of donating your kidney--compared to the opportunity cost of being a dick.Lootifer wrote:lol, well its an unanswerable question so I prefer to think theres good in the world.
regardless I think [apparently] selfless acts should be encouraged. i.e. donate to charity (just, as BBS says, do your research and ensure it is good/effective charity: good - teach a man to fish, bad - give a man a fish).
This goes back to the debate about pure altruism being nonexistent. We live by informal rules and external enforcement which can pressure us into doing the right, 'selfless' act.
El Capitan X wrote:The people in flame wars just seem to get dimmer and dimmer. Seriously though, I love your style, always a good read.
Yes, I knew people who gave their lives for their children, both directly and absolutely as well as many parents who effectively gave up their lives, denied themselves all their dreams and passions to give their children a better future.TheProwler wrote:Do you know anybody who has actually done that?Lootifer wrote:Er a lot of people would give up their lives for their children
then again, maybe just giving them cash is really the better choice.Lootifer wrote:lol, well its an unanswerable question so I prefer to think theres good in the world.
regardless I think [apparently] selfless acts should be encouraged. i.e. donate to charity (just, as BBS says, do your research and ensure it is good/effective charity: good - teach a man to fish, bad - give a man a fish).