another one of my controversial topics. but is an interesting subject definitely.
i hear many people say homosexuality is inborn to one, and u can do nothing about it - it's "the way you're made". i don't believe this, i think our childhood and personal choice have much to do with this. but in the light of the first argument one can consider homosexuality to be a disease (or better said disorder, disease sound too dreadful) in biological sense - since it prevents main reason of our biological existence -> procreation . in social sense this "disorder" poses no problem since they are as valuable individuals, good people, members of their communities etc.
we all tend to be open-minded and say: gay is ok. but do we practice that in life. first time i was in company of homosexual my liberal beliefs slowly melted - i really felt uneasy despite my attempt to behave normal. you have nothing in common to talk about with them (u know the usual stuff - football, politics etc). what i really dislike is their effeminate behavior - those girlie voices, way they walk, move ... i really can't stand that (i don't care if they f*ck each other in the ass in private but try to act like a man in public, and they have to parade their sexuality everywhere they go - at least a part of them). so i try to avoid them in long circles. i will never have good friend who's gay nor i want to - and i would probably distance myself from a friend who would turn out to be gay, but i would tolerate if a family member was gay (blood connections come before anything to me).
am i a biggot then, and a homophobe?
write your views on this subject.
