THORNHEART wrote:well its used all the time...and its ridicolous to say that it is because he is homophobic he is using it.
now its obvious he
accosiates being queer with something bad as do most redblooded american males.
in almost any activity in which men are involved you will hear "you fag" or thats "so gay" used...seriously stop posting
ridicolous accusatins in this forum and then being like im not sure in what way it was meant please look into it. serious ball up quit being such a faggot.
but he is a serial deadbeat.
Yeah, great logic, though not surprising. First off though, what color blood do American male homosexuals have?... or, do they "accosiate" being queer with something bad also?
More importantly though. Yes, people do use the term all the time. That does not mean its homophobic, only that its used all the time. People also used to use the n** word all the time. It is racist, and always was racist. That did not make it right then, and it does not make it right now. Also, he did not say, you fag, or so gay... he repeatedly calls people "fucking faggots" which may or may not be against the rules. It certainly isnt a "ridicolous accusatin" If someone used this phrase that you so passionately defend in the workplace, they could be sued, fired, and possibly even arrested under certain conditions. If used during a crime, it could create a civil rights violation and actually make it a hate crime. So, while you like the term, and defend it, do be careful, because while it all makes sense in your head, there is a big world out there, that is actually a little more complicated than the one you've created for yourself, and you will indeed run into serious trouble, if you ignore how the real world operates for too much longer.
Maybe this will make it easier...when you watch a movie where the racist antagonist(that's the bad guy) is calling other human beings racist things, and treating them as worth less than other humans, just because of their race....remember, you are that antagonist, and it is that guy you are defending passionately here. You are welcome to do so, but do not be confused in any way your role in this situation. You are advocating bashing other people because of their sexual orientation, and not just for some harmless humor. You are literally justifying the use, because you feel that being gay, or fag, or faggot is somehow bad as to all red-blooded American males. I just want you to be under the illusion of being the champion of some just cause here, because in this case, you are the bad guy, the one who is wrong, and the one who is the bad guy, in the next movie or TV show you watch...that you falsely assume is not you.
In any case, Im not suggesting that every time a person uses the word it should be dealt with, or a post should be made, or even that I would have made a post if thats all he was doing.
This accusation is about a player who is repeatedly and methodically calling players "fucking faggot", is purposely deadbeating, and in general being abusive, possibly beyond the CC guidelines. Its not the "ridicolous accusatin" you think it is, but one made after seeing a player that is generally out to cause trouble in nearly every way he can. Though I cant be sure of how mods deal with such players, and honestly don't care to some degree, I do know its worthy of a thread, if for no other purpose than to get it noted, or warned, especially knowing full well that at this point, that he will continue, and further ruin games for players that truly get bothered by such things. Myself, as you may see from the chat, tend to have fun with such players.
Some helpful advice:
Now...perhaps instead of posting in favor of, and in defense of outright bigotry, maybe you could just take one minute, to download a spell checker, or hell, maybe even have someone proof read that stuff, or, if you have a learning disability please warn, because I honestly feel guilty pointing out problems with posts that are absolutely so devoid of the ability to understand English. So, I apologize if English is not your first language, if you have a learning disability, if you are six, if your computer that wont allow for a spell checker because you cant afford it, or some other issue I cant think of....otherwise, at the very least, read your posts once before posting...and if you cant understand it...just edit it to be coherent, or at least, partially coherent, because some of those groups of words you string together, simply are not sentences, and while I cant resist pointing it out...I feel extremely guilty doing it, especially if you really do have a actual problem or speak another language. Or in general, if you see grownups discussing difficult topics which take some thinking and perhaps some actual thought...maybe just play another doodle game or something.
