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But thats not strictly true as the original poster has already stated,some parents do and some dont but the question asked was should they?OnlyAmbrose wrote:Parents pass on their values. An atheist couple is going to raise their kid to be atheist. A Jewish couple will raise their kid Jewish. And so on.
Moral or no, that's what happens, and that's what's going to happen until (God forbid) kids are separated from their parents at birth.
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I've seen that happen to people who were not force fed religion, and some who made the decision on their own as well.Norse wrote:When I went to university, I met a girl who was force-fed religion as a kid...
Guess what? she hated her parents, became a total slut, got pissed all the time, and dropped out of uni, as she became pregnant.
That can also happen when parents are very strict, then when a child gets his/her freedom they spring out as a wound up toy, because they were held back all their life.Norse wrote:When I went to university, I met a girl who was force-fed religion as a kid...
Guess what? she hated her parents, became a total slut, got pissed all the time, and dropped out of uni, as she became pregnant.
b.k. barunt wrote:Snorri's like one of those fufu dogs who get all excited and dance around pissing on themself.
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Could also have to do with their parents (not nescasarily religion), school, spouse or other things. Not quite religion.Norse wrote:I agree, that scenario can happen to anyone...
But of all the people I have ever met, I've never met anyone who has fooked her life up quite dramtically (and she happens to have been force-fed christianity)
BTW, last time I heard from someone who knows her now, she has 2 kids, and a terrible smack habit.
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Because parents ARE going to influence what their child believes. And also urge their kids to believe in the same stuff. That is going to happen. Even if some parents do force their beliefs on to their kids, I doubt it will cause major riffs in their family lives.joecoolfrog wrote:People can rebel for all sorts of reasons so it doesnt follow that exposure to religion is always to blame for kids going off the rails. Having said that I dont think,what amounts to a life choice,should be pushed onto a young child as there is obviously the potential for problems in the future.
We all express outrage at 'honour killings' in the Muslim community but closer to home there are many instances of young people becomming estranged from their families as a result of them rejecting their given faith. Many people find God late in life or become 'born again' ,so age is apparently no barrier to heaven, so why cant we let children make their own informed choice rather than push them in a particular direction.
Yes we know it happens but do you think it should happen ?muy_thaiguy wrote:Because parents ARE going to influence what their child believes. And also urge their kids to believe in the same stuff. That is going to happen. Even if some parents do force their beliefs on to their kids, I doubt it will cause major riffs in their family lives.joecoolfrog wrote:People can rebel for all sorts of reasons so it doesnt follow that exposure to religion is always to blame for kids going off the rails. Having said that I dont think,what amounts to a life choice,should be pushed onto a young child as there is obviously the potential for problems in the future.
We all express outrage at 'honour killings' in the Muslim community but closer to home there are many instances of young people becomming estranged from their families as a result of them rejecting their given faith. Many people find God late in life or become 'born again' ,so age is apparently no barrier to heaven, so why cant we let children make their own informed choice rather than push them in a particular direction.

No, the original post proves my point.comic boy wrote:But thats not strictly true as the original poster has already stated,some parents do and some dont but the question asked was should they?OnlyAmbrose wrote:Parents pass on their values. An atheist couple is going to raise their kid to be atheist. A Jewish couple will raise their kid Jewish. And so on.
Moral or no, that's what happens, and that's what's going to happen until (God forbid) kids are separated from their parents at birth.
To some extent this is true, however I don't think it's the whole truth. Regardless of the right or wrong for the moment, people with a religion are more likely to bring thair child up of that religion than those without are to bring up their children as atheists. A religious parent who regularly goes to church will involve their child in their religion from an early age without even thinking about it. Its natural. But for an atheist to prevent their child having involvement in religion means actively preventing it; making a conscious decision to not allow your child to hang around with a Christian kid for example. Whilst some people will do this of course, purely the passive vs active involvement would surely skew the stats alone. I've heard this argument many times and I think its easy to think of all atheists as drum banging Christian/Muslim/Jew haters, just like its easy to think of all Christians as pushy recruiters; on either side this just isn't the case for the vast majority.OnlyAmbrose wrote:Parents pass on their values. An atheist couple is going to raise their kid to be atheist. A Jewish couple will raise their kid Jewish. And so on.
Moral or no, that's what happens, and that's what's going to happen until (God forbid) kids are separated from their parents at birth.